Heal your past and stop those self-sabotaging behaviors in relationships now!

Upgrade your relationships permanently, and faster than you ever imagined! 

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Returning To Love Program

Heal your past and stop those self-sabotaging behaviors in relationships now!

Upgrade your relationships permanently, and faster than you ever imagined! 

Get Started Today!

Are you longing for love that feels easy and fun? 

Balanced, healthy and compatible?


Have you read every  relationship  book out there? Paid thousands of dollars for therapy and coaching? And yet you're still attracting unavailable people or narcissists, too little connection or compatibility, and feeling alone and unfulfilled?

Maybe you've tried to recover from Narcissistic Abuse, or have spent months or years working on codependent tendencies or insecure attachment... And yet you  still can't fully overcome these experiences and patterns? 

If you're feeling this way, I promise you it's not you. 

You are perfect, whole and lovable.


What causes difficulty in our relationships are all the beliefs and protective behaviors we took on in childhood and in previous relationships. They cause us to choose the same types of partners and to recreate the same relationship dynamics over and over. In order to have a new experience, we need to rewire the neural structures and memories in the brain that control our choices, responses and behaviors.

You probably already understand that!  And have probably even done extensive work to shift these. But..  you are still struggling, and relationships still feel hard. Those old wounds and patterns continue to surface.

And it's not your fault.

Here's how we create real, sustainable change.

On top of traditional relationship coaching, this program uses the new, cutting-edge  MAP Healing Method. Unlike other methods, MAP heals attachment wounding and relational trauma at the root.  And because we are actually rewiring memories and beliefs, your choices, responses and behaviors will start to shift very quickly with minimal effort.

You, as the client, work with different tools or your coach to identify the problem emotions, behaviors and beliefs, and then relax and listen passively while the brain and mind do all the work to heal itself.

Check out what a few of our clients had to say about their experiences with the MAP Method and the Returning to Love Program.

What people had to say about the Returning To Love Program!


Michelle cleared a lot of childhood trauma and learned how to have a healthy adult relationship!  This program changed her life!


Before taking the Returning to Love Course, Angie was considering leaving her marriage.


Elynn had tried everything, but wasn't sure she would ever feel ready to date again!

Read More Feedback From Participants!

Invest in this 12-Week  Program and Change the Trajectory of Your Life! 


Get clarity on the patterns in your relationships and the underlying beliefs that perpetuate them

MAP these beliefs, one by one, and neutralize your old, self-sabotaging patterns

Magnetize new beliefs, choices and behaviors and create a healthy, sustainable relationship

Raise your vibration to the frequency of love

Begin the process of returning to your fullest capacity for healthy love and intimacy  



 Get ready for the journey with crucial, foundational work to get into the right mindset for the shifts ahead.

Then, allow the program to guide you from one transformation to another, in exactly the right order to produce cumulative change.

* WEEK 1: Deeply investigate the patterns in all your relationships, and learn to accept yourself as you are. 

* WEEK 2: Understand and clear the family influences on how we view ourselves and in our relationships, so we can be more fully ourselves.

* WEEK 3: Get clear on your attachment style and begin the process of shifting to secure!

* WEEK 4:  How safe do you feel in the world with others? How does this impact your capacity for intimacy?

* WEEK 5: What is your relationship to yourself and how does it impact your relationship to others?

* WEEK 6: Are you enough? What is your identity in relationships?

* WEEK 7:  Explore codependent behaviors and their origins; learn to take charge of your own happiness

* WEEK 8: Shift your fears of conflict and turn that into healthy, productive disagreement

* WEEK 9: Reframe rejection and learn how to not take things personally

* WEEK 10: Rewire your "picker" (aka attraction) for healthy love 

* WEEK 11: Rewrite your past and eliminate any negative influences on your future

* WEEK 12: Rewrite your future powerfully!

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Frequently Asked Questions

Relationships Don't Have To Be This Hard!

So Why Keep Struggling?


There was a time in my life, too, when I struggled with relationships - all of them. It was deeply painful and I often felt disconnected, alone and that there must be something wrong with me.

I decided to become a relationship coach after a truly devastating break up in 2011. I wanted to understand why this had happened to me and how to fix myself!

It took me time to identify the underlying reasons all of my relationships had painfully fallen apart. But because of my persistence and commitment to fully understanding myself, I have been able to identify overcome my deepest blocks.

I no longer feel alone or disconnected. I know my patterns. And since becoming a Certified MAP Practitioner, I have mapped my way to happy, healthy and whole.

We must vibrate at happy, healthy and whole before we can create a fulfilling and sustainable relationship.

This is what I offer to you.

Meet Your Instructor

Dyan has always been passionate about connection and intimacy. After 20 years of meditation and mindfulness practice, she became an Intuitive Transformational Coach with Relationship Coaching certifications from Katherine Woodward Thomas in Conscious Uncoupling and Calling In The One.

In 2020, she discovered the MAP Healing Process and knew immediately this was the missing ingredient to her programs! She jumped immediately into the MAP certification program, and has since witnessed miraculous transformations in her clients as well as herself.

She is now a certified MAP Practitioner to her own clients, and a Breakthrough Expert and Intuition Coach for the MAP Coaching Institute.

Take Charge Of Your Future Now! 

Claim This Opportunity to Receive Extraordinary  Relationship Coaching Supercharged by MAP!

You will receive:
  • 12 Video Lessons to deepen your understanding and capacity to recognize unhealthy relationship dynamics
  • 12 Pre-recorded Relationship-Focused MAP sessions
  • AND 8 BONUS MAP sessions!!!
  • 5 or more magnetizations on a variety of topics
  • Access to recorded coaching sessions with prior participants
  • Customized worksheets to guide your transformation
  • 3 Quizzes to Expand Your self-awareness
  • Bonus practices to let go of the past
  • Bonus Heart Opening Meditation and practices
  • Private, supported Facebook Community
  • Option for 3 monthly payments
  • Option to purchase discounted 1-1 MAP Sessions with Dyan

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More comments from previous participants

I really enjoyed the course. I was really able to learn a lot about myself, my patterns and where my patterns came from - especially my attachment styles and my partner's, and how that had been affecting our relationship.  

Last year, we actually talked about separating. From the course, I was really able to work through my own patterns, in particular my unworthiness and own my fears and stories, so  that I don’t project as much onto my partner anymore. I'm really taking responsibility and able to communicate my needs more lovingly. Because of that, my relationship is more open, we communicate more easily and I feel more empowered! If anything does come up, I have more tools because I really understand myself! 

Through the MAP sessions, I was really able to clear the unworthiness I had felt in my relationship! I was able to clear my triggers and I feel now that my needs are just as important, and I’m showing up more authentically in my relationship! 

It was a really powerful course - thank you!